men

So I'm at it again with the plenty of fish deal. I lost in love awhile ago...but I have to keep searching...surely he's out there right?

I've been talking to several people...email and phone only. Here they are.

1) Mr. Canadian Stud - Kevin
Location: Alberta, Canada
Race: White
Height: 5'10"
Age: 32
Notes: I am having THE best time emailing back and forth with him. We have A LOT in common and he and I have talked about everything from how we like our coffee, to our families to where we see ourseleves in the future to visiting each other's cities. : ) We play 20 questions every night and I've really enjoyed getting to know him the correct way (so far). He is my number 1 right now. By the way...he earns extra brownie points for being a teacher...I admire all people who will end up making a difference in people's lives. I'll keep you updated.

2) Mr. Cop - Joe
Location: Arlington, TX
Race: Black
Height: 6'8"
Age: 28
Notes: Don't know about this cat. I definitely have my reservations. He is only 28-years-old and his last relationship was 8 years long. He has a kid (3 years of age) from this past relationship. The 8-year relationship is cool...shows he's not afraid of commitment. And I don't mind the kid thing...as I'm sort of ready (but not ready) to make grilled cheese sandwiches and tell bedtime stories. He tells me he has never really dated before and has always been in a relationship...um let's date some. I dunno...he's super fast...not as in wanting to get in bed or anything...but super fast as in ... being all lovey dovey. While I like that stuff...dude...we haven't even met yet. Cool off.

3) Mr. Divorced Dad - Mike
Location: Houston, TX
Race: White
Height: 5'11"
Age: 30
Notes: Divorced Dad has A LOT of baggage...I mean he walked in on his wife having an affair...and now everytime he sees his son, he sees her and hates her. Not sure I really need to get myself involved in all of that. BUT...he and I have been playing 20 questions as well and he's really a sweet guy and he's in my industry and we talk a lot about everything dealing with that and it's nice to talk to someone who knows the ends and odds of your job life.

4) Mr. Basketball Coach - Trey
Location: Kingsville, TX
Race: Mixed
Height: 6'4"
Age: 28
Notes: He and I have been talking on email for about five months or so...we just recently started talking on the phone. And we've been talking every night. He's a really great guy. He's funny and really sweet. Has a smile to die for. But...not sure what to ASSUME here...he sent me a picture of his top half (shirtless)...which by the way looks extremely good...but that leaves me to assume why he sent the picture. Should I not think anything of it...or is he trying to tell me something?

5) This is no one...but I had to put him on blast...this guy named SingleAtTheMoment (wonder why) just emailed me...and I think I'm going to write him back the following which is written under his email. Does it make me sound like a bitch? Tell the truth. ;o)

His email:
"Your adorable so adorable!!!!!sh*tin factthat I've decided im going to adopt you as my newLiL sister. Don't worry, we'll spend all our timetogether climbing trees and drinking KooL-@iD. Actually you seem like a pretty cool ASS person, I'd loveto get 2gether sometime and let you cook and watch a movie!Wait! You anit crazy r you?"

My email:
Seriously? First of all...you obviously didn't read my profile, because I asked anyone who could NOT decipher words like "your" and "you're" to not contact me. And I doubt that you were just being sarcastic...because your whole profile smells of bad grammar. Second...why the hell would you adopt me or say that you're adopting me as your little sister? While I'm all up for climbing trees b/c I grew up as a tomboy, that's not my idea of a date or a good pick-up line. Third...if you think I'm some Suzy Homemaker who cooks and cleans and gets a beer for her husband...don't let the door hit you on the way out. Toodles.

not enough words

To John C. Sanchez,
You are a coward among other things. If only your mother and your family knew what kind of man you are... I hope that your son never becomes like you. And I hope Karma is a true bitch.

~someone who was once charmed into thinking that she loved you.

at least i learned that i could love...

So...long story short...he cheated. (Amber's *tear*) Story of my effin' life.

Don't ask me how I found this out...unless you really just want to be shocked-the-fuck out. But he has been cheating....so moral of THIS story is...I can't wait to give him back all of his shit. AND after I rip one into him...if he doesn't take his shit...here are some things that will be for sale on Craigslist.

Size 34/36 Khaki/tan/brown dress pants w/brown belt
Size XL lavendar-colored dress shirt
Size 10 brown leather dress shoes
Size L gym shorts
Size XL pink RL bleached top
Size XL cream RL top
2 pairs of dress socks (green/tan color and black)
Size 34/36 RL jeans
Size XL white FotL wife beaters (5)
2 packs of malboro lights (that I demanded i take away from him)

If he does take his shit...I guess I have to give him his movie back....altho...he does have one of mine...so eh...i'm keeping it.

And another thing...even though I joined HIS gym...boy...I'm so going back...and I'm going to go back EVERYDAY and get hotter than the fucking sun!...and I'll possibly see his ass...and that's okay, b/c I know this: He doesn't deserve me...and everytime he sees me at HIS gym...he'll know, he'll never be able to have me again. He has lost THE best damn thing that has ever come into his life. I just hope his son doesn't turn out to be like him.

Anyways...I've already gotten back on Plentyoffish.com and I'm trying it again. All my life...I've never been in love and never thought that I could. But I can...and although I unfortunately got shitted on this time...I know what love is like...and at least I know that I can.

And honestly...I WILL, love again.

36-year-old men are NOT for me

So went on a couple of dates.

Tye
The 36-year-old and I are no longer. I knew we'd have a problem when he and I were messaging over IM on yahoo. He stated something that made me realize he'd have a problem with my age and him being older...um nine years older. Which...is fine...because besides the fact that he is nine years my senior, he just isn't the dude for me.

First of all...if you're meeting someone at Yucatan Bar and Grill...(which is basically a bar outside and has a pool and a dozen volleyball courts, etc) for darts and billiards...wear jeans. Don't come on our date when it is f-ing 104 degrees outside and wear dress pants, a tan silk shirt and dress shoes. Who are you trying to impress? Your boss ain't here.

Second, stop trying to put me down and act like just because I'm 27 years old, I haven't experienced anything or I don't know anything about life. Please do not go there.

Third, he was a mother-fawkin' arrogant ass and I can't stand dudes like that. Kept talking about his money and how much he spent on his Chrysler Crossfire and his $600,000 home in Coppell. Dude...I don't care. When I offered to pay for my half, he was like "put away your money, i don't want you to go bankrupt". Oh know you didn't. *In my mind...I was snappin' fingers all across his face*


J
DID...go out with a VERY handsome 27-year-old who is 6'7" - which I am TOTALLY digging. I like the whole 6'7" deal. He gave great hugs and we're meeting up tomorrow. I can't wait.

www.plentyoffish.com

I will keep you guys posted.

stella got her groove back

so i went out to carson's on wednesday for $1 drink night and i actually had a decent time...except for the idiot dude that kept following me around.

I am a networker by heart and being laid off now, comes with consequences. I think I asked everyone in that bar what they do and if they're hiring, not to mention i gave out business cards. One dude told me it wasn't polite to ask what he did b/c I sounded like a gold-digger. I then continued on with my "don't worry...I'm not asking what you do b/c I want to know how much money you make or how much car I think you can afford, because 1) i have a better car and will always think that even if I were to drive a hooptie and 2) i will one day make more money than you, so you can cut the crap". I turned away and as soon as I started to take a step...he grabbed me and was like "I was just joking babe, you can ask me what I do any day". Um can we say DENIED?

Ol' idiot dude (the follower) said he was going to hook me up...but I have decided not to go that route, because ol' dude is also being denied! Talking to me out in the parking lot is one thing and is okay, but bending down to kitty level and shouting "i want to taste you" is not.

So everytime I go to Carsons I get a number/date/meet a few new guys to add to the list. Unfortunately ol' idiot guy keep trying to follow me around so it was kind of hard to get around to the guys who would touch my shoulder and try to talk or the guys who would buy me a drink. Ol' dude even asked an ex why he was talking to his woman. WTF?

Hopefully, when my friend Bev and I go back again next week, ol' dude WILL NOT be there and I can concentrate on getting dates. : )


Update: So a friend told me to get on plentyoffish.com and start looking around...as she had gone on a few dates with guys from there. Turns out that the site is free and it IS a decent place to look around. And fortunately for my addicting personality and great looks, I have three dates lined up.

One is a 36-year-old, one is a 27-year-old and one is a 24-year-old. I will keep you posted.

Loving life!

my men

so i think i go through men like water...in fact there's no thinking about the situation...i do. almost every day i'm thinking about a new one, or crushing on a new one. let me break down the men in my life right now.

Name: Mr. So Cal
Age: 24
Race: Black and Japanese
Location: Southern California
About Him: He's a bum (a hot one at that). He's been acting like one for the past year. His parents have money and he's been living off of them so he can decide what he wants to do with his life. He has a college degree and even had a decent job before he decided to call it quits and take up surfing. We have been talking [again] for several months now and he's decided he wants to move back home and start a new life and possibly date me. This scares me...because if you look below...I have too many choices. Am I ready? Am I realizing that maybe I don't like him as much as I used to? This is where I feel I have commitment issues. I'll keep you posted.

Name: Mr. Illustrator
Age: 25
Race: Black
Location: Dallas, TX
About Him: He is just supposed to be a "friend"...but I don't know. There's something about him that's so captivating. I need to stop going for the artsy types. I need to stop finding great maker-outer-ers. ;o)

Name: Mr. 6'10"
Age: 26
Race: White
Location: Atlanta, GA
About Him: His gorgeous green eyes and blond hair could make any girl's heart flutter. He is my email buddy. He and I have been talking on myspace for quite some time. He recently got out of a long relationship and well we've just been talking it up. He's a really sweet guy. The drawback is that he lives in Atlanta...but I sure have been looking for jobs out of Texas...you never know. Atlanta has always been calling my name. Maybe one day.

Name: Mr. Kriminal Lawyer
Age: 29
Race: Black
Location: New Orleans/Dallas
About Him: He's studying to be a lawyer at Tulane. I'm not too thrilled that he's a Kappa...not trying to do the whole date the fraternity guy. But whatever. When he's said that he'd call...he did. Brownie point number one. Plus he calls me sweetie pie, sweetheart, sends me text messages in the morning that go something like this, "hey beautiful just wishing you a great day". While I'm not one for all the mushyness...it's kind of nice. Hopefully he is not killing me with Kappa Charm and he really is a nice, genuwine guy. He usually comes home to visit every other weekend...he's coming home Memorial Day weekend...and we've already planned a date.

Well this is my dilemma...I will keep you posted on how everything goes with each. Right now...I'm liking number 2 and 4 the best.

I'm giving up

to the man i like:

Je ne vous comprends pas. Et qu'est avec la poignée de main? Vous êtes vraiment stupide. Un jour vous réveillerez et vous rendrez compte que vous m'aimez. Et quand ce jour vient, je me réveillerai à côté du type qui sait déjà.

i think it's about time I give up on you. you'll never figure it out. you'll never figure out that i've been standing here all this time...right in front of you.

you

you got a sexy way about you baby, you.

oh baby what you do to me, you really put it through to me, ooh. i'm talkin' 'bout you.

damn

He's so sexy. I wish he knew how I felt about him. Doh! Most times I see him...I just want to back him into a corner and rip his clothes off. Geez....